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  • #31
    A dog! get a dog...you can trust them...and they listen too!
    '79 XS 1100F

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    • #32
      I live in an apartment and cant have dogs.Just found out some more crap and need to go take a walk.
      1980 XS1100 SG
      Inline fuel filters
      New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
      160 mph speedometer mod
      Kerker Exhaust
      xschop K & N air filter setup
      Dynojet Recalibration kit
      1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
      1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed

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      • #33
        hi yam

        sh%t can get you down i suffer from my own medical problems but you have your bike and you have US!that might not be much,, but as i look around you have more than most,,if you need a visit from a member please ask!!if you pm me i will give you my phone number,, every one needs an oldyam and your ours! ride safe ,,slow mo!
        The Belfast Express {1980 xs11oo special/TC fuse box/mikes xs pods/bad boy horn!/mikes green coils/mac 4 into 2 exhaust/ standard bars/vetter fairing c/w ipod CD iphone am/fm radio/tkat fork brace ,,,tuned by tinman
        moemcnally@hotmail.com
        i AM THE KING OF NOTHING

        the people here are great , doesn't matter about the bike really/hamjam ////

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        • #34
          Thanks people such as yourself keep my hopes up!
          1980 XS1100 SG
          Inline fuel filters
          New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
          160 mph speedometer mod
          Kerker Exhaust
          xschop K & N air filter setup
          Dynojet Recalibration kit
          1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
          1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed

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          • #35
            Well thanks to everyone on this board who has written and has given me their phone #'s and words of encouragement things are getting a bit easier.It helps that i don't think about things and try to keep a positive outlook on life.It's funny how one person can make you feel like the end of the world.People don't realize how words do hurt you.I lost like 10 pounds and could not eat for like 2 weeks.I told everyone how this woman works at my bank but a different branch,well the women at my branch have been very good to me knowing what is going on.I don't say anything that could backfire on me and think they respect that.But am in a much better place then i was when i wrote this thread.
            1980 XS1100 SG
            Inline fuel filters
            New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
            160 mph speedometer mod
            Kerker Exhaust
            xschop K & N air filter setup
            Dynojet Recalibration kit
            1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
            1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed

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            • #36
              Good to hear Yam. I am by no means any kind of therapist, so I kept my outh shut on this one.

              But I do agree, positive attitudes bring positive results. I am finding this with my recovery from the wreck. If I think like the wreck never happened and just go do things like walking without my cane, I find I can do alot more before my body tells me "ok, enough". I think you will find the same. For whatever reason the relationship did not work, you can not empower others with the ability to change your happiness. Save that power for you and you alone.

              See, not much of a therapist am I...
              Life is what happens while your planning everything else!

              When your work speaks for itself, don't interrupt.

              81 XS1100 Special - Humpty Dumpty
              80 XS1100 Special - Project Resurrection


              Previously owned
              93 GSX600F
              80 XS1100 Special - Ruby
              81 XS1100 Special
              81 CB750 C
              80 CB750 C
              78 XS750

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              • #37
                Thanks for your words-getting better but will take time.
                1980 XS1100 SG
                Inline fuel filters
                New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
                160 mph speedometer mod
                Kerker Exhaust
                xschop K & N air filter setup
                Dynojet Recalibration kit
                1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
                1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed

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                • #38
                  Originally posted by oldyam80sg View Post
                  People don't realize how words do hurt you.
                  I totally understand that part.
                  http://www.myspace.com/i_give_you_power

                  1980 XS11 Special - chopped, dropped and OCTY is still installed - NOW IT'S FOR SALE! $1,800 OBO


                  Famous Myspace quote:

                  "Don't mess with TEXAS! It's not nice to pick on retards."

                  It's funny because I am from TEXAS!

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                  • #39
                    After this blew up in my face, i told the only one in the bank not to tell anyone.She said OK and when i went into the bank the next time,a woman who is getting divorced told me that i don't look the same and that if i need to talk she is available.I said OK and left the bank.We will meet for a drink this week.
                    1980 XS1100 SG
                    Inline fuel filters
                    New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
                    160 mph speedometer mod
                    Kerker Exhaust
                    xschop K & N air filter setup
                    Dynojet Recalibration kit
                    1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
                    1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed

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                    • #40
                      Glad you're getting back on the right track, you seem to be a good fella with a big heart. keep your chin up and think positively and all will work out. and if you ever get out to western Ohio, send me a PM, we'll get together and have a beer or something, do some riding, whatever. the SWOXS group would love to have a visitor, I got plenty of room at my place for the next few months while I am remodeling and getting my place ready to sell ( I don't have any furniture, but plenty of space) you're welcome to crash here for a few days or so, we can get the crew together and take a ride along the Ohio river, it would be a righteous time, think about it. have a nice day and ride safe
                      I am the Lorax, I speak for the Trees

                      '80 XS1100 SG (It's Evil, Wicked, Mean & Nasty)

                      '79 XS1100 F R (IL Barrachino)

                      '00 Suzuki Intruder 1400 (La Soccola)

                      '77 KZ400s (La Putana)

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                      • #41
                        been there, done it

                        Man, find something in life to be gratefull for, thank god you have a roof over your head, food to eat, water to drink, a bike to ride, our needs are food air and water, the rest we can survive without, and yes you will survive without a woman
                        i wish i could tell you what i have been trough but there is not enought space in here, I have been to the place with the gun to my head and wanted to shoot some one elece, x wife if you have to know, but there aint nothing today that can make me want to go back to that frame of mind ever again,
                        pm me with your phone number and I will call you, i have free long distance.
                        Keep the dirty side down and the shiney side off the ground
                        Latter
                        Cowboy Bob
                        1979 xs1100 f
                        142 main, 45 pilot, Jardeen crosover 4/2, no air box
                        floats @ 25.7

                        1979 xs1100 F
                        1978 gl 1000 goldwing
                        1981 gl 1100 goldwing
                        !986 venture royale 1300

                        Just an ol long haired country boy, come to town to spend some egg money
                        when ya get bucked off, get back on

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                        • #42
                          Geeze! I've been married once and divorced 3 times. Go figure.

                          Divorce is when you pay a woman to stay the he!! away! And, it's usually worth it.

                          Kinda like a hooker, when your done you pay her and she goes away. LOL

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                          • #43
                            yea

                            Originally posted by XSokieSPECIAL View Post
                            Geeze! I've been married once and divorced 3 times. Go figure.

                            Divorce is when you pay a woman to stay the he!! away! And, it's usually worth it.

                            Kinda like a hooker, when your done you pay her and she goes away. LOL
                            My kind of girl, pay her and she goes away, but may be we got to get this turned around, they pay us and we go away, makes me wonder who is smarter here, ya think
                            1979 xs1100 f
                            142 main, 45 pilot, Jardeen crosover 4/2, no air box
                            floats @ 25.7

                            1979 xs1100 F
                            1978 gl 1000 goldwing
                            1981 gl 1100 goldwing
                            !986 venture royale 1300

                            Just an ol long haired country boy, come to town to spend some egg money
                            when ya get bucked off, get back on

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                            • #44
                              Now i"m actively dating one specific female and we are connecting on so many levels.Hope this works-definitely takes my mind off things.The woman from the bank actually wanted to come over but had to tell her no.
                              1980 XS1100 SG
                              Inline fuel filters
                              New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
                              160 mph speedometer mod
                              Kerker Exhaust
                              xschop K & N air filter setup
                              Dynojet Recalibration kit
                              1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
                              1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed

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                              • #45
                                Oldyam80sg, the depression you are experiencing is within you. It's not the things on the outside that are causing it. I know because my 16 year old son was having the same problems especially when he found a new girlfriend. Something they would do would set him off and he would go suicidal. I would try and talk to him and he would pull out a knife and tell me that if I didn't get away from him he was going to slit his throat right in front of me. He didn't want to talk about it and he didn't know how to talk about it. He didn't understand what was going on. He didn't have any control over it. It broke my heart to watch him struggle with it because he couldn't control it and didn't know what to do about it. I'll never forget the rage in his eyes. We took him to a therapist that prescribed medication but that didn't seem to help too much. Then he got into a alcohol 12 step group because he was drinking and doing drugs. He is a totally different person today. It's unbelievable what that 12 step group has done for him. He does still have his moments of restless, irritable, and discontent but as long as he goes to meetings he is pretty good and there has been no more drinking, drugs or suicidal episodes in a long time. I have my son back and I am thankful to God for that! What I am trying to say here is that he finally found out what the problem was. It wasn't anything he was in control of. It was within him. It had nothing to do with what was going on outside of him. They were symptoms of an underlying issue within him. I hope this may help you to find out what will work for you. Best wishes for you.
                                Last edited by mstic2000; 07-06-2010, 02:00 PM.
                                My 1978 http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v518/mstic2000/xs.jpg

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