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Hi buddy. You are only as old as you think you are!!! And there is nothing better than to breathe !!!!!
Do yourself a favor and get some help from family, friends, etc. Just don't give up as I think you might be insinuating.
I'm PM'ng you my phone number. If you don't find anyone to talk to, please call me anytime you feel like talking.
ANYONE CLOSE TO NEW JERSEY THAT CAN GET INVOLVED?? I've seen people travel to fix members bikes. Here's a rider that is asking for help!!
I learned a long time ago that the person who is either your best friend or your worst enemy is....YOURSELF...Its all in your perspective that shapes your reality....change your perspective and you change your reality. I'm not in a relationship with anyone and i have not been so in quite a number of years. What I want isnt dependant on what I need and vice versa. I wish I was still in NJ so I could come and meet up with ya. Just take it one day at a time and look for the small miracles of your life thaat occur everyday. I believe it takes more energy to think negatively than it does to think positively. JAT
Getting a little easier but still a lot of times i think to myself and wonder what people see.What did i do or not do.Ask myself over and over again and it's hard when someone doesn't tell you what i did wrong.There are days when i don't bring my phone to work so i don't text her-sounds stupid but it works.Thanks to everyone who has responded-i read all and listen to everyone.
1980 XS1100 SG
Inline fuel filters
New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
160 mph speedometer mod
Kerker Exhaust
xschop K & N air filter setup
Dynojet Recalibration kit
1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed
Getting a little easier but still a lot of times i think to myself and wonder what people see.What did i do or not do.Ask myself over and over again and it's hard when someone doesn't tell you what i did wrong.There are days when i don't bring my phone to work so i don't text her-sounds stupid but it works.Thanks to everyone who has responded-i read all and listen to everyone.
To me this sounds like you depend on others for acceptance yet you dont seem to accept yourself. I used to counsel highschool kids and one of their biggest concerns is that they are not attractive enough to have a boyfriend or girlfriend...acceptance by their peers...I always tell them that before others can accept you you must accept yourself. Once you are confident in yourself then others will accept you for who you are and not what they expect you to be.
To me this sounds like you depend on others for acceptance yet you dont seem to accept yourself. I used to counsel highschool kids and one of their biggest concerns is that they are not attractive enough to have a boyfriend or girlfriend...acceptance by their peers...I always tell them that before others can accept you you must accept yourself. Once you are confident in yourself then others will accept you for who you are and not what they expect you to be.
Totally not true-more to this story than i can post.Have plenty of confidence but like a lot of people always someone who likes to kick people when they are down and she did just that.Today actually when i was getting a haircut-this woman-in her late 20's asked if i was with someone and i said no and actually am going out tomorrow night on a date.Not too bad for being 43 years old.
1980 XS1100 SG
Inline fuel filters
New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
160 mph speedometer mod
Kerker Exhaust
xschop K & N air filter setup
Dynojet Recalibration kit
1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed
On top of that-i just took my SG for the annual 2 year inspection and passed!Guy said he doesn't see those bikes much on the road and asked if i could rev the engine so he could remember what a real engine sounded like.I don't know who was happier me or him!
1980 XS1100 SG
Inline fuel filters
New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
160 mph speedometer mod
Kerker Exhaust
xschop K & N air filter setup
Dynojet Recalibration kit
1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed
Like toolmakertim said.Make an appointment seek real help.We all have low points in life but consistent thoughts of suicide are not normal.Please seek help from a health care professional.You will soon feel much better!
Terry
1980 special (Phyllis)
1196 10.5 to 1 kit,megacycle cams,shaved head,dynojet carb kit,ported intake and exhaust,mac 4 into 1 exhaust,drilled rotors,ss brake lines,pods,mikes xs green coils,iridium plugs,led lights,throttle lock,progressive shocks,oil cooler,ajustable cam gears,HD valve springs,Vmax tensioner mod
Well just found out another woman i previously dated also had cheated on me.She recently also contacted me this past week and found out the girl at the bank and her know each other-i swear i cant trust anyone of them.
1980 XS1100 SG
Inline fuel filters
New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
160 mph speedometer mod
Kerker Exhaust
xschop K & N air filter setup
Dynojet Recalibration kit
1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed
Well just found out another woman i previously dated also had cheated on me.She recently also contacted me this past week and found out the girl at the bank and her know each other-i swear i cant trust anyone of them.
Well the girl at the bank and i talk via Face book so at least we are civil.The other woman she contacted me today and I told her what i know about her and she was amazed that i found out-she didn't deny it but insists that nothing happened.I think i will indeed change banks and also take my profile off the dating site.I seemed to have a better time with the 27 year old anyway and she has never been married so maybe that's a plus.
1980 XS1100 SG
Inline fuel filters
New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
160 mph speedometer mod
Kerker Exhaust
xschop K & N air filter setup
Dynojet Recalibration kit
1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed
And i also have plenty to keep my mind occupied as I'm looking for a way to keep my left hand from going numb when i ride my ZRX and am planning to do a lot of riding during vacation.
1980 XS1100 SG
Inline fuel filters
New wires in old coils-outer spark plugs
160 mph speedometer mod
Kerker Exhaust
xschop K & N air filter setup
Dynojet Recalibration kit
1999 Kawasaki ZRX1100
1997 Jeep Cherokee 4.5"lift installed
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