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    My Father passed away early this morning. He was a good man. I am very grateful that I got to spend the last couple days with him and had a chance to say goodbye. He will be greatly missed.

    It is so strange how I feel right now, almost like I am hollow inside. Perhaps a part of me has also passed away early this morning.

    Ray
    Trying not to offend since Aug 28, 2010

    Disclaimer: I am an idiot. Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.
    Owner of:
    1979 XS1100F (The Pig)
    140 mains
    45 pilot jets
    Floats at 24mm
    Running Rich

    "Arrogant, delusional tyrants can't be stopped by earnest words and furrowed brows. Action, strong bold action coming from a position of strength and determination, is the only effective deterrent." -Mitt Romney

  • #2
    Ray,

    I am very very sorry to hear that. I know the hollowness of which you speak, as mine passed in 97. No words can fill it. Only time can make it feel smaller. Nothing makes it feel better very quickly. You will find that even more than ever before you want to call him up and ask him something.

    Glad you took some of that precious time to come to the rally, was great to meet you.

    My deepest sympathy and heart felt prayers for you and your family.

    Don
    Life is what happens while your planning everything else!

    When your work speaks for itself, don't interrupt.

    81 XS1100 Special - Humpty Dumpty
    80 XS1100 Special - Project Resurrection


    Previously owned
    93 GSX600F
    80 XS1100 Special - Ruby
    81 XS1100 Special
    81 CB750 C
    80 CB750 C
    78 XS750

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    • #3
      Sorry for your loss Ray
      2H7 (79) owned since '89
      3H3 owned since '06

      "If it ain't broke, modify it"

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      • #4
        Deepest sympathies and prayers for you and yours.

        You are suddenly missing a major part of your life and you will feel overwhelmed, but it will pass. Remember the good times you spent with a good man. He helped get you where you are today.

        Again, Sally and I are sorry for your loss.
        Marty in NW PA
        Gone - 1978E - one of the first XS11 made
        Gone - 2007A FJR - the only year of Dark Red Metallic
        This IS my happy face.

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        • #5
          So sorry for your loss.

          I really dread the day I need to make a post like this
          Nathan
          KD9ARL

          μολὼν λαβέ

          1978 XS1100E
          K&N Filter
          #45 pilot Jet, #137.5 Main Jet
          OEM Exhaust
          ATK Fork Brace
          LED Dash lights
          Ammeter, Oil Pressure, Oil Temp, and Volt Meters

          Green Monster Coils
          SS Brake Lines
          Vision 550 Auto Tensioner

          In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.

          Theodore Roosevelt

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          • #6
            I'm so sorry for your loss.

            Hopefully, the hollow feeling will be filled with wonderful memories of him.

            Sending prayers and positives your way.
            81 SH Something Special
            81 frame, 80 tank and side covers, 79 tail light and carbs, 78 engine, 750 final drive mod, Geezer rec/reg, 140 mains, LH wheels


            79 SF MEAUQABEAUXS
            81SH Nor'eas tah (Old Red)
            80 LG Black Magic
            78 E Standard Practice


            James 3:17

            If I can make at least one person smile, or pee their pants a little, or maybe spit out their drink; then my day is not wasted.

            “Alis Volat Propriis”

            Yamaha XS 1100 Classic
            For those on FB

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            • #7
              So sorry for your loss Ray,My dad is 85,and I'm dreading the day he is gone.I lost my mom several years ago and I know the feeling that you speak of. only time can heal your feelings.
              FOXS-XS11SG

              2009 Suzuki V Strom 650,Adventure in Touring,I call her "Smooth" SW Motech engine guard,Coocase top case w/ LED brake and tail lights,20" MRA touring screen w/adjusable bracket,Grip heaters,fender ex-tender,Givi hard sidebags

              1980 XS11SG-sold
              1999 Vulcan classic-sold
              1982 XJ 650-sold

              Old is only a state of mind......John

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              • #8
                Ray my condolences as well... Prayers to you and your family.
                1980 XS650G Special-Two
                1993 Honda ST1100

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                • #9
                  Time never heals these losses, but through our memories
                  of all the good times we shared he remains alive Iron

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                  • #10
                    Sincere condolences Ray. I still have my Father at 83 and know how fortunate I am.
                    current bikes:
                    1983 GS 1100E
                    2009 Kaw Vulcan 1700 Classic

                    past bikes:
                    1978 XS 1100
                    1994 FZR 600
                    1984 V65 Sabre
                    1973 CB 750
                    1974 CB 750
                    1979 KZ 750 twin
                    1977 CB 550
                    1983 XJ 750 Seca
                    1981 900 super sport
                    too many others to list

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                    • #11
                      Father

                      Sorry for your loss. I lost my 28 year old niece last week to cancer.
                      Dale
                      78 XS1100E Standard
                      Coca Cola Red
                      Hooker Headers

                      http://i408.photobucket.com/albums/p...m/DSC00580.jpg

                      1979 XS1100 Special
                      http://i408.photobucket.com/albums/p...m/DSC00612.jpg

                      1980 XS Standard
                      http://i408.photobucket.com/albums/p...m/DSC01137.jpg

                      2006 Roadstar Warrior
                      http://i408.photobucket.com/albums/p...um/warrior.jpg

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                      • #12
                        I'll add my condolences as well. My father passed way in december of 2010, still feels odd to me not to have him around. My father-in-law passed away this past February, so now my wife is going though the same feelings.

                        Keep the memories.
                        Jerry Fields
                        '82 XJ 'Sojourn'
                        '06 Concours
                        My Galleries Page.
                        My Blog Page.
                        "... life is just a honky-tonk show." Cherry Poppin' Daddy Strut

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                        • #13
                          Mine passed 12 years ago in 2000, and to this day, I'll do or see something and think, "Man, I need to call dad and tell him about this!" Then it hits. My condolences to you as well.
                          Try your hardest to be the kind of person your dog thinks you are.

                          You can live to be 100, as long as you give up everything that would make you want to live to be 100!

                          Current bikes:
                          '06 Suzuki DR650
                          *'82 XJ1100 with the 1179 kit. "Mad Maxim"
                          '82 XJ1100 Completely stock fixer-upper
                          '82 XJ1100 Bagger fixer-upper
                          '82 XJ1100 Motor/frame and lots of boxes of parts
                          '82 XJ1100 Parts bike
                          '81 XS1100 Special
                          '81 YZ250
                          '80 XS850 Special
                          '80 XR100
                          *Crashed/Totalled, still own

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                          • #14
                            Condolences

                            Sorry for your loss. Having lost both my parents (Dad in 94 and Mom in 01), I know the pain that you're feeling. Although that sense of loss will never go away, its sting will lessen over time.

                            God Bless!
                            1979 F
                            Mac 4-2 Exhaust
                            T-Kat Fork Brace
                            Spade Fuse Box Mod
                            Stainless Steel Braided Brake Lines
                            140.0 Main Jets
                            45.0 Pilot Jets
                            266 X-2 Needle Jets

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                            • #15
                              Not much I can say that has not been said...... but to offer my condolences.

                              I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
                              1979 XS1100 Special - since 2008
                              1977 XS750 Special - since 1985

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